One of the most difficult parts of experiencing a shift in beliefs is the sense of isolation that can come with it. It can feel like no one else understands. And for others, there’s a real fear of being distanced from Christian friends, family, or church communities.
You are not alone. Over the past decade, a growing number of online and in-person groups have formed to offer support, connection, and safety for people navigating questions, doubts, hurt, and faith transitions. Below are some of the communities and gatherings we’ve found especially meaningful and helpful.
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The Curian Network "(formerly opentable.network) is a denominational space credentialing and resourcing pastors, chaplains, spiritual directors, and counselors... without demanding conformity to specific creed or covenant."
The Lasting Supper is an online community created by David Hayward (NakedPastor) "back in 2012–to be a safe haven and support system for people like you who are in search of clarity, direction, and guidance on their spiritual journey… a place where you’ll be supported, affirmed and validated every step of the way as you find your own truth and create spiritual freedom."
ORTCON is a yearly gathering of the leading voices in Open and Relational Theology.
Peter Rollins is a prolific philosopher and theologian who has created several online and in-person groups for discussing the most challenging questions of faith, philosophy, and life in general. His Atheism for Lent course is a great place to start (though it can be quite disorienting if you're in early stages of deconstruction).
The Post-Evangelical Collective is for those who "feel ecclesiologically homeless in the larger church landscape and unsure where you fit, but know that you’re not ready to give up on the church and want to be a part of reimagining what the church looks like for our current moment"
Rebuilding Faith is a "private space where questions are encouraged, doubt is normal, and fresh insights await. This is a place to connect with like-minded people, explore big ideas, and share your thoughts in a welcoming space. Led by Jeremy Jernigan, you’ll get access to curated reading lists and engaging discussions to help you discover perspectives that will inspire and challenge you, all available when you are."
Southern Lights is a yearly progressive Christian gathering in Georgia led by Diana Butler Bass and Brian McLaren to "find respite in a sacred space to reimagine your faith and leave enriched, renewed, and challenged."
Theology Beer Camp "is a unique three-day conference that brings together hundreds of theology nerds and craft beer for a blend of intellectual engagement, community building, and fun. Organized by Homebrewed Christianity, this event features a lineup of well-known podcasters, scholars, and theology enthusiasts who come together to 'nerd out' on theological topics while enjoying loads of fun activities."
Wild Goose is a "4-day Spirit, Justice, Music and Arts Festival... where all kinds of people come together, not only to hear great music and incredible speakers, but also to dive into lively conversations with thought leaders, writers, dreamers, artists, visionaries, social justice activists, peace-makers" and more.